Look ye forth till tomorrow,

Look ye forth till tomorrow,
God will protect you; then do what is right
Showing posts with label debt. Show all posts
Showing posts with label debt. Show all posts

Saturday, February 19, 2011

A New Kitchen - A New Perspective


A family in our ward is moving. I overheard them talking to someone in a ward about the details of the day. I offered some extra boxes (I have been keeping the ones that the PC product comes in and they would be good for some big items). She told me they would still be in the ward and told me where they were moving.
The next week I asked her if they were going to a bigger house or a smaller house. They have a married daughter, a single daughter with a Masters Degree who lives elsewhere and comes to visit, and a son who is a senior in HS and will go on a mission next year. I thought I heard a few years ago that he was getting close to retirement.
I was surprised and saddened when she told me the house they were going to was a rental home because they had "lost their home". This is common phrase these days as home values drop and houses become "upside down"- that means they owe more than it is worth and also that they may be unable to make those larger payments.
Then she shared that she felt it was a combination of "the kitchen remodel" and "furlough days" that were their undoing.
My small, boring kitchen looked ever so good after that. We, too had been hit with furlough days and a loss of income because of it.

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Things that I feel strongly about...

1. I am a mom, and grandmon; I love my kids, husband and my grandchildren
2. I am a daughter & I love my mom, she is still very important to me
3. I am a sister – “oh, the joys of sisterhood!” as a child and as an adult
4. I want my children to live good lives, remain active in the church, and work always to be the best they can be
5. Education is important
6. Continuing education continues to work for me
7. The importance of making a marriage work- it is important to marry the right person, at the right time, in the right place
8. Oral histories- I love to find out details about my ancestors lives
9. Family history – who did I descend from?
10. Quilting, knitting, some scrap booking
11. I have arthritis – and can do less with my hands than I want to.
12. Stress management
13. The importance of a good relationship with in-laws
14. Christmas – family holidays and get-togethers
15. Our joys and struggles as we lived in our “Poverty, hunger and dirt” days…we were so poor, with 6 kids in a little 900 sq ft home.
16. Emergency preparedness – follow the prophet
17. Getting out of debt- living within our means

What do you feel strongly about?